Back to School

I always love going back to my old school. I feel lucky to have been given such a rounded and varied education and I never fail to wonder at the kindness and politeness of the girls when I return.

Yet our visit this week was particularly special. I had been invited back to look at the gratitude diaries of Year 6 students following a speech I had given last year about the work of the Happynesshub, but I had no idea the impact this visit would have on me. And Ilana, who came too…

Since September 2016, St Helen’s has been using the Paws b syllabus to introduce the girls in Year 6 to mindfulness. This started because the teachers were finding that, at just 10 and 11 years old, the girls (not to mention the teachers!) were experiencing rising levels of stress and the number of children with anxiety problems was increasing. Thus the fantastic and amazingly kind and calming teacher, Sudeep, took the initiative to bring mindfulness to the school, having experienced first-hand its benefits personally.

We sat in (and participated in – much to our excitement!) a mindfulness session with the girls. Each girl knew exactly the practices they liked, from finger breathing (tracing the outline of fingers in time with the breath) to petal practice (breathing out whilst opening the palm of the hand like an opening flower, and closing fingertips on the inhale) – as well as other approaches too. It was music to our ears, to hear how the girls had introduced this into their personal lives. One shared how she had used it to keep calm whilst her mum was in hospital. Another practised mindfulness when she was angry with her brother – it helped her feel more peaceful and to realise that he didn’t mean to be unkind!

And that was only the first half hour of our visit! We then listened to the girls talk about the sorts of things they put into their gratitude diaries. From their teachers, and school trips, to simply having hot water, their gratefulness overflowed. We heard about the ‘ripple buddy’ where each student has somebody who, for that week, they are extra kind to. All this kindness makes a ripple effect, creating a community of kindness. And the imaginary buckets, which become filled when you are kind – and others are kind to you – and empty when there is nastiness. Each day the girls are taught to ask themselves, ‘have you filled your bucket today?’

Listening to the girls talk about how happy it made them, not only to receive kindness, but also to be kind to others, showed us how much of an impact these small classroom initiatives have on the whole school environment. These positive effects impacted, not only the girls, but the teachers too, some of who had introduced it into their family lives back home.

For us, the special thing about St Helen’s was how neatly kindness, gratitude and mindfulness were incorporated into the everyday lives of both the girls and staff. Each girl was polite, thoughtful and enthusiastic whilst the passion of the teachers about the girls’ wellbeing was truly inspiring.

We both left the school with tingles of joy and excitement. Our buckets overflowing, we became more determined than ever to share this good work. What a special morning we had! Thank you St Helens!

By | 2018-02-09T01:15:21+00:00 February 9th, 2018|Tags: , , , , |0 Comments

About the Author:

Hello! I’m Sally, Head of Happyness, as the team calls me. Crazy title, I know, but it makes everyone giggle including me, so we’ve stuck with it. I’m the founder of the Happynesshub and I am passionate about our work. I’ve spent years reading about happiness and wellbeing, putting the research into practice, and trying to navigate the ups and downs of life’s rollercoaster ride. My dream is for our community to grow, to share the work and the love, and to make the world a happier place. May sound corny. But it’s true.

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